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I have been told for years “once you have kids, forget about having any alone time of any kind!” So we waited to have kids, and waited and waited. Ten years after being happily married with a sex life that has only gotten better with time, we have a four month old. So, you are wondering, is there sex after kids? The answer is yes and it is awesome!
A big question for many couples – either legally or spiritually married or not – is the issue on how to achieve a continued intimacy – especially after the advent of children. Couples marry out of a deep desire to love and to be loved and that they believe that together they are able to experience life more deeply than if they were apart; not to find a convenient partner who will provide funding for a lifestyle, cook meals, mow the lawn, wash dishes, do laundry, and rear children.
Sit back and hold tight as Miyoko Fujimori shares with you her secrets on sex, intimacy, and relationships in this exclusive interview… some can be a bit saucy (but Miyoko doesn’t think so).
This former Playboy TV talk show host and erotic dancer has recently published a book called The Housewife’s Guide to the Practical Striptease. In which, she shows women of all shapes and sizes how to turn up the heat in bedroom using the fine art of striptease.
Ready? Let’s get started…
1. For your latest book, The Housewife’s Guide to the Practical Striptease, how did you come up with the idea and what’s your objective of writing this book?I was doing a pajama party for my Home Party Company, Indulge Party. I had written an outline of basic striptease instruction, and later thought, why not make this a book!
Absolutely, in fact the shy ones are so sexy! There’s something incredible about seeing a woman who is humble and vulnerable.
The best move is eye contact. If you have locked eyes on your partner, they wont even notice anything else!
Relationships are generally long term and can be monotonous. Anything that sparks a flash of romance is a help! But really the magic happens within her mind! The woman who is performing the striptease can take step back from her daily routine and just be a sensual creature. She can wipe the mind clean of any resentments or irritations… like why can’t he just take out the trash, why do I need to ask…. etc! And her freedom and inspiration to be sensual is a major treat for him!
They can do a striptease in a matter of minutes! Not even a whole minute! They could get the “look” down, and he’ll know what she’s up to! But for a first time performance, I do recommend taking some time to plan and stage the event! So there would be an element of foreplay involved in the planning stages! Ahhh, finding time for sex as a parent. This is tough…. But as long as there is a desire to make time, it will happen! It can be a quick romp in the closet while the kids are watching cartoons, or some intimacy late in the night once they’ve gone to bed. Or perhaps a daytime romp if you have ones in school!
It seems that the underlying issue for most is lack of communication. Most couples do seem inspired, and interested in sex, but fear of what their partner will think can be a deterrent. I find that the happiest couples are ones who are not afraid to share what they desire in bed, and include their partner in what they desire. My advice to anyone is to be honest about who you are and you will find someone who can also be honest with you!
Daily routines, childbirth, child rearing…. need I say more? 🙂 It is a touch transition to be a single woman, and suddenly have not only the responsibility of a life, but also the loss of the selfish life. I don’t think men undergo the same journey into parenthood. While they may have a life change, they generally do not have to consider who will care for their children when they need to go to work, get a haircut, run errands… they just do them.
I came home from class one night, where my students had said to me, “your husband is so lucky, you must give him dances all the time!” And I thought, “gosh, I can’t remember the last time I danced for him.” So I put on some music, and gave him a great dance! Sweaty, no make-up, and in my sweats from class… it was a very authentic evening for us!
1. Never take your partner for granted! 2. Always look at and think of them as the most beautiful woman, or the sexiest man alive, and they will be just that! Just like the movie Shallow Hal! It is what you perceive of yourself and your partner that make them irresistible to you! 3. Date nights.. these are a must to keeping the romance alive, and the conversation about something other than your kids!
I am a big supporter of adult toys (obviously) and I do think that they can be an instant spark to any dull evening! But also taking the advice of the last answer is helpful. Think of yourself as a sex kitten, and imagine the hottest guy the world is having sex with you! Just close your eyes and voila! You’re in bed with Brad Pitt! Loving yourself and your partner is the only way you will keep those fires burning in this fast paced world!
It’s not that difficult. Women generally all want the same thing: To know they are loved, and desired. If you tell her that you like it when she _____, then she’ll do it more! And don’t forget to pay attention to the entire body! Women are not just a genital area! The mind, and skin are way more stimulated than the thousands of nerve endings in the clitoris, so breathe on her, make noise, caress and kiss her all over while you are focused on the prize!
Forgetting about the mental stimulation! As I said earlier, the brain is the place to make the best orgasms happen! Not giving her enough time to warm up! Everything feels better when it has swollen with desire. Thinking quantity and not quality. Not all women want a marathon, in fact most I know don’t have the time. Make love well, and to the point. Time does not matter— and frankly neither does size. It’s the excitement that really matters.
Pretending to orgasm. Pretending to orgasm. Pretending to orgasm. Get what you want and need ladies, he will be much more satisfied knowing that you had yours!
Sit back and listen to her body. She will let you know what feels good and when she is near. If you try to make it happen for her, she may just move things along to make you feel good about it. Instead, tease and tickle her and get the blood flowing, then wait for her signals that she wants more, or faster, or harder.
I encourage you to get a copy of Miyoko’s book The Housewife’s Guide to the Practical Striptease. It’s an easy read and only 60 pages. Excellent for busy parents. Despite the tiny size of the book, the impact on your relationship is huge. Check it out.
For more information, visit Miyoko’s website at PracticalStriptease.com
See also:
Is Your Sex Drive Lacking? Here’s How to Get it Back
Let’s Do It! Surprise Your Husband in Bed
Love Making Tips For Husbands: Your Spouse Will Be Pleased
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