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Getting back in the dating scene after divorce |
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Written by Administrator
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Tuesday, 18 March 2008 |
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Dating after your divorce can be a daunting experience. How do you know what to reveal about your past, and when should you reveal it?
Austinite Chris Roberts never imagined he'd be back in the dating pool, but after his marriage dissolved, he found himself there without a life jacket.
“It is difficult. You have to think about what's the first thing you're going to tell somebody,” he said.
Psychologist Sydney Paver recommends telling a person on the first date your status.
“I think the best thing to do is to be very honest and direct. If you're not yet divorced, it's really important to reveal that, otherwise people feel tricked,” Paver said.
As to why you got divorced, Paver says don't reveal too much. And when speaking about your ex-spouse, remain neutral. That's what Roberts does.
Full report: Getting back in the dating scene after divorce
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