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The One Activity Your Children Can Do with Grandparents
Written by Abel Cheng   
Wednesday, 24 October 2007

When my children paid a visit to their grandparents last weekend, we didn't do much as it was a short trip. The kids had only 2 days, 1 night to spend.

To best make use of the trip, I tried to get the kids to bond and hopefully form a closer relationship with my parents and siblings, whom they only meet once every few months.

Of course, playing with kids was one of the ways. But there’s one problem. It took a while for the kids to “warm-up” and accept my parents as playmates. Furthermore, my folks can't match the grandchildren’s enthusiasm.

Fortunately, I found a better idea: watching home made videos.

Over the months, after I bought a video camera, I have captured some interesting moments of the kids on video.

Initially, I thought playing the videos for my parents to watch was nothing more complicated than watching TV. The only exception was my kids were the stars.

I was wrong. I came to realize that it's more than that.
  • Get the kids talking. I noticed, while watching the videos, my preschool daughter explained the details of the videos to her grandparents: "Ah, this is my friend." “We went to a birthday party…” The videos helped reduce the communication barrier between grandparents and grandchildren faster.
  • Updates. My parents and siblings got a taste of what was going on in the kids’ lives – even though we lived hundred miles away. They don’t miss a thing. It’s like a rewind of the kids’ big and small events.
  • Entertainment. We laughed and cry together as we watched the videos. No TV programs were more interesting than watching grandkids doing funny things on TV.

Isn’t it a cool idea? Why not you do the same when your kids visit their grandparents next time?

The video camera is one heck of an investment that well worth the money.

But the only thing is…

The storage problem. Since videos take up more space than still digital photos, you need bigger hard disk for videos. Over the last 6 months since I bought the camcorder, I have made 30 GB of video clips, which is the size of the hard disk in the camera. To overcome this, I just bought a 120 GB notebook hard disk just to store our family photos and videos. I may burn some clips on the CDs.

Oh yeah, another problem is, after fiddling with the gadget for some time, you don’t feel as “motivated” to shoot videos as when you first bought. But it’s always handy to have a wife to remind you to take out the camera and prepare some videos for next trip.

For more Works for Me tips, head over to Shannon’s Rocks in My Dryer.
Comments (3)add comment

JLow said:

  Good tip, Abel! I totally agree with capturing the once-a-lifetime moments. The photos I use on my blog are all "genuine" too, especially the baby delivery & baby pics ones; those moments of which have already passed 3 years ago now... I even have videos of my wife just before the due date, & even footage of the delivery room!

At the moment I capture both video & photos. For the videos I transfer & burn the footage onto a dvd movie, which (I hope) will last forever. For this, another tip is to buy branded blank dvd's for this, for I have a phobia that cheap blank dvd's may actually deteriorate, losing my precious videos forever. As for the photos, I back them up onto dvd-data discs.

Once a while I too play these dvd movies for my little girl to watch. She would reminisce about the recent Chinese New Year & be reminded of the out-of-town relatives, watch going swimming with Daddee when it's raining outside, her own first steps...
2007-10-24 16:42:51 | url

Abel said:

  JLow, all CDs, VCDs and DVDs have lifespan. After a few years, they are inaccessible. It's advisable to copy to new discs or other media. I know it's troublesome but you can't help it.

I hope there's a better way to store that lasts a lifetime :-)
2007-10-24 18:43:27 | url

Kathleen Marie said:

  What a great idea. At times I upload videos to YouTube and send out the link to family.
2007-10-25 02:12:06 | url

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