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All she wants is to go to school
Written by Abel Cheng   
Wednesday, 18 July 2007

Seriously, I have never thought things like this could happen.

It’s sad to find out that a 7-year old child has been struggling to be accepted by a school. Simply because Wong Bi Jun is a special needs child.

Her mother seeking frantically (both private schools and international schools) for a school that will accept her but to no avail. Everyone, upon hearing that she has a delay in development, gives excuses not to enroll her.

Isn’t it ironic? A school is supposed to help children to better equip themselves with knowledge and skills. But in this case, not only did the schools reject the child’s application to be a student, they gave no encouragement but snide remarks.

For example, I quote this from the story:

“One principal from a private school even told me that she hated to deal with special needs students and that such students were actually handicapped and not special needs.”

How could a school principal make such a heartbreaking statement? Shame on her!

I pity the mother and now she doesn’t know where to turn to for help. I think something has gone wrong somewhere that needs to be corrected for such a thing to happen.

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Follow on note (July 20th): Some parents responded to the story by giving suggestions to deal with this particular issue. They speak from their own experiences. Bravo!

Comments (7)add comment

kiro said:

  I hope there is some special schools for children that need more attention.
2007-07-18 01:16:42 | url

Abel said:

  I agree with you and it seems that the support system for special children is not laid down properly. To put it bluntly, they are the neglected minority.
2007-07-18 20:53:14 | url

Ruth Liew said:

  When all fails, the tough gets going. There is always an alternative-homeschooling with friends. Schools are not the only places where children can get a good education and a great childhood. Many parents of special needs children have taken up homeschooling and done very well. Parents are children's first teachers.
2007-07-19 08:16:33

Kiro said:

  Home schooling ~WOW~ takes up a lot of guts and discipline. I salute these parents.

OoO.... please come to my site for i have a special book to introduce to those who are interested in dealing with special children. ....
2007-07-19 23:40:27 | url

tanyetta said:

  Everyone in the WORLD has special needs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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The right to an education! Give me a break I cannot believe a principal would say such a thing. WHAT IS THIS WORLD COMING TO???????????? :(

In my personal opinion, I think the issues of people putting LABELS on kids, etc has gone out of control. She's SEVEN years old. She hasn't been in school at all????????????? I'm confused. I need to read more about the story. I'm really sad to read this.
2007-07-20 09:36:51 | url

VEA said:

  Thank you for this article.

I feel very disheartened that this child has encountered so much of rejection from the schools! Do they not know their duty??? why are they in the education line if they do not wish to educate the kids?? I feel so bad for the mom i can understand how frustrating it is! Do not reject children! if they cannot cope with the child then the least they could have done was to recommend to the mom a proper school for her to go to instead of giving cruel remarks!!! the comments from all the moms was good! Parents know how it feels like to have their kids rejected. WHy punish the innocent? they (the schools) should re-evaluate their goals!
The Ministry of Education should also look into getting proper schools for these children! And make sure every one knows where to get them (the schools i mean)! What about parents who can't afford private school for their special needs child? what i wonder happens to them??
2007-07-24 02:54:33

Abel Cheng said:

  VEA: That's exactly what I was trying to say. If you don't have passion in teaching, then you should consider career change. Also if you don't have anything good to say, just keep quiet.
2007-07-24 19:21:59 | url

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