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Spanking
Written by Ruth Liew   
Friday, 16 March 2007

The results on the survey whether spanking is effective are not really surprising. I do not agree with spanking and would like to advise parents to try other more positive methods.

Most parents who use spanking do find it effective because it works for them. Children do stop their misbehaviour when parents spank them or threaten to spank them. But is this the only to discipline children? I truly hope not. If only parents will try a little harder, there will be other ways to discipline children. Children who are spanked learn that when they are bigger and stronger, they can also use physical means to solve their problems. This is something I am sure parents do not want their children to learn.

The cost of using spanking is too high for parents with young children. There will be negative effects that will become more apparent when children grow older. Whether spanking is effective or not, parents should consider other means of non-punitive approaches to discipline children.

I would definitely say 'No to spanking'

Comments (2)add comment

Chris Young said:

  I hope that parents would not be misled to think that spanking works. It may only work on the surface, and we tend to overlook the impact on the child's emotional and psychological aspects.
2007-03-18 22:49:25

modern mom said:

  I can't agree more that you. There are many other ways than spanking when come to dicipline a child! Spanking is just a convenient and a quick fix to the problem.
2007-03-19 02:47:48

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